The feeling of having learned something too late is one of the most persistent things I encountered across two decades in hospice work. It almost never turns out to be what it appears to be on the surface. The mechanism behind it is not a failure to encounter the right wisdom early enough. It is … Read more
The most common regrets people report, whether gathered from hospice bedsides or from large-scale surveys of the general population, tend to cluster around the same few themes. Bronnie Ware documented five of them from her years in palliative care. Daniel Pink’s research across a much wider population confirmed the clustering and added one finding that … Read more
Most of what gets written about regret either turns it into a warning, live without regrets, or tells you to let it go and move on. Neither of those does much with what regret is actually telling you. This piece looks at lessons learned too late as a recognizable pattern in how people experience their … Read more