Savoring ordinary moments is not a mindfulness technique or a wellness practice. It is something quieter, and most of what gets written about it manages to make it harder than it needs to be. This piece covers what savoring actually is, what tends to pull a person out of a good moment without their noticing, … Read more
Most people have noticed, at some point, that a small ordinary pleasure can feel more genuinely satisfying than a large event they spent months anticipating. The psychological explanation for this involves hedonic adaptation: the well-documented tendency to return to a baseline level of wellbeing after positive changes, including major ones. What the research on hedonic … Read more
The big things people chase for happiness, a promotion, a new house, a milestone they’ve been working toward for years, tend to deliver less lasting satisfaction than expected, and they fade faster than anyone predicts. Small, ordinary pleasures often hold up better, not because they’re more impressive, but because of how the mind processes novelty … Read more