How to Stay Motivated Without External Validation

How To Stay Motivated Without External Validation

Wanting acknowledgment for your efforts is not a character defect. The problem comes when the effort itself begins to depend on whether the acknowledgment arrives. Motivation that rises and falls with external recognition is not weak, it is extrinsic, and extrinsic motivation has a predictable vulnerability: it requires the reward to be present to keep … Read more

Staying Motivated When No One Believes in You

Staying Motivated When No One Believes In You

The absence of belief from the people around you is a real cost, not a mindset problem to be dissolved by reading the right thing. Most advice on this subject treats the solution as a decision when it requires something slower and more cumulative than that. What follows is a more honest account of why … Read more